What Does It Mean to Be a Single Person?
- The definition of single is “consisting of a separate, unique whole” (an individual).
- Being single implies being entirely focused (an undivided heart).
- The term “single” is rooted in the Latin phrase singulus, which means “only one.”
“She showed single devotion to her religion. To those whose views are single and direct, it is a great comfort to have to do business with frank and honorable minds.”
—Thomas Jefferson
Those who grapple with bachelorhood in life may encounter difficulties with:
- Identity (“Who am I?” “What is my purpose?”); (Ephesians 2:10)
- Loneliness (“I seek someone to complete my life.” “I feel very alone.”)ﾠ (Hebrews 13:5)
- Rejection (“I am not desired.” “I must not be considered lovable”); (1 John 3:1)
- Fear (“I might be lonely when I am elderly”)ﾠ “I do not wish to be wounded anymore.” (Isaiah 41:10)
- Bitterness (“I’m hardly doing my best in life,” “God must be reprimanding me”); (Psalm 84:11)
- Sexuality (“The only way to intimacy is via a sexual relationship.” “I’m at a loss on what to do with my romantic desires.” (Romans 12:1)
- Self-Worth (“I don’t feel significant.” “I am not worthy of love.” (Isaiah 43:4)
In our Singleness towards the Lord, we all should enable ourselves to focus on being comfortable and the Lord's content in our connection with Him.
- Concentrate on satisfying the Lord. (Read 1 Corinthians 7:32)
- Have full commitment to the Lord. (Read 1 Corinthians 7:34–35).
- Living single can represent a better position. (Read 1 Corinthians 7:40)
Love-filled words:
“In my judgment, she is happier if she stays as she is— and I think that I too have the Spirit of God.” (1 Corinthians 7:40)
