Question: "I find myself attracted to someone other than my spouse. What can I do to ensure that I will be faithful?"
Answer: At the very moment your eyes, thoughts, or emotions start turning from your spouse to someone else, redirect your mind and emotions back to your mate.
Question: "How should I pray for my husband who has left me and is involved in an adulterous relationship?"
Answer: Your husband needs to feel heavy conviction so that he will walk away from his unfaithful lifestyle. During this time of estrangement, pray that your husband will become a faithful husband and a man of integrity who has God’s favor.
Question: "My husband has had numerous affairs and now wants to reconcile. Should we get back together?"
Answer: Ask yourself this question: What would make me think I can trust him now when I couldn’t trust him in the past? The past is the best predictor of the future unless some kind of intervention occurs.
Question: "Can an affair of the heart be one-sided?"
Answer: Yes. People who have one-sided affairs of the heart constantly think about a person to whom they are not married, but may never outwardly act upon their feelings for that person.
Question: "My husband is my life, yet he is involved in an adulterous relationship. I am consumed with pain and unable to read the Bible or pray. How can I reconnect with God mentally and emotionally? I need Him desperately."
Answer: God sees your heartache and understands your pain… God wants you to lean into Him. Yield your will to His will and let Jesus take control of your life. As a Christian, Jesus Christ is your life.
Question: "What can I do about my husband spending a great deal of money on a girlfriend he is living with and incurring large amounts of debt?"
Answer: Laws vary from state-to-state and country-to-country regarding how a spouse can protect financial interests when the other spouse is incurring debts on joint credit cards.
Question: "What commonly characterizes those who get involved in adultery?"
Answer: The lying lure of adultery is subtle. It begins slowly by laying a foundation in the heart and mind based on dissatisfaction and selfishness, then quickly deepens in danger.
Question: "Is it wrong to try to find out whether or not my spouse is being unfaithful? If it's not wrong, what is the best way to do so?"
Answer: It’s not wrong to search out and confirm the truth. Truth sets us free to make wise choices regarding the future.
Question: "I've been pulled into an affair with a woman I once dated. We were both promiscuous then, but I hate the deception now. Why would this woman from my past devalue my marriage now?"
Answer: Be aware of your wording. The “blame game” is powerfully effective in shifting blame to someone else but it leaves you feeling powerless and unable to take control of the situation and change it.